From my standpoint, I've seen couples who chose the first look and loved making that a part of their day. It's really a personal choice and many times personality and family dynamics have a big impact on that decision. If you're the kind of person who enjoys hanging out with your people, whether it's family and friends or your special inner circle of your wedding party the first look can help you do that and also get you to the party quicker as well so you can keep the fun going!

If you're a quieter, more traditional couple with family who you see a lot and aren't into the dance floor then I'd recommend not doing a first look as long as the daylight hours allow.

First look photos can have a very intimate and emotional feel to them that you won't get during a ceremony first look with everyone present and sometimes even though it feels emotional for you or your significant other they may not show that emotion so don't expect it or demand it!

Definitely talk with your photographer and planner about the best fit for your personalities, your wishes the timeline, and the light availability on your specific day. There is no right or wrong choice, just the choice that you are happy with!

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